What would happen if, the next time, you think “I don’t have any other choice,” you rephrased it to, “I make this choice freely because I think it will have the best possible consequences for me.”
Why did you do that? Because it was the closest match your mind could find to what your mind believes you want most.
A tomato doesn’t try to be an apple (even if it IS technically a fruit.)
Indulging in a rich, unedited fantasy life is as essential to the creative wellspring as food is to physical function.
When dreams and expectations are too far apart the dreams will remain only fantasies.
What is a “dream come true?” I think it is the manifestation, the realization, the actualization, the awareness that what we desired is our reality.
When I purge my closets I let go of anything that doesn’t serve me, whether it fits me or doesn’t. Time to do the same with my dreams.
Even when you don’t understand the question. Love is still the sensible response.